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Matteus
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SO I just came back from the Vans warped tour.
It was sweet.
I have never moshed so much in my life!!
One thing that I noticed though was the amount of chicks in the pit. Now, I'm not trying to be sexist, but do some of these girl THINK before they go in there?
I had to lift out a handfull of girls who were maybe 80 pounds soaking wet to the front before they got crushed or trampled on.
Dont get me wrong, I have seen girls hold their own in there, but quite often they have guys keeping an eye on them.
Do they even know that they are being watched over?
Anyone relate to this or have stories? - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 1:48pm
moron
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+1 vote for dumbest thread this week. - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 2:30pm
Mordock.the.Benzite
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it has my vote. - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 4:36pm
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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women can easilly handle the pit, if they can't maybe we should rethink how we are acting in the pit. As Todd of Rebel spell once said, "there is something about inclusion and exsclusion, and if your trying to knock the shit out of each other you may be exscluding the smaller people."

And as Jello said, "using the pit is not a righht it is a privlidge."

I agree dumbest thread of the week - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 5:08pm
XJAyX
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"I'm not trying to be sexist"

Then you must just be sexist then.

Next time I see you at a show, I'm going to point you out to my wife so she can kick your ass.

I'm stuffing the ballot box for this one. - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 6:26pm
Nik Olaz
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Dumbest thread in the history of this board actually. - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 8:59pm Edited: Thu, 20 Jul 2006 9:00pm
Endeløs
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I thought the thread was titled "Chinks in the moshpit".



Which I'm all for of course - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 10:11pm Edited: Thu, 20 Jul 2006 10:11pm
alain
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Wow, what the hell happened here?
Sure, the wording could have been better, but is this as awful as you're making it out to be?
Hoorah for women as equals, but come on, are we so PC that we can't accept that women are generally less fit for the pit?
I know that's often not the case, as I just witnessed my girlfriend legpress 400lbs today.
Like anything, there are exceptions to both sides. Many girls can handle themselves in there; many guys can't. But to get uptight over a thread like this?
Threats to the guy?
Intense. - Thu, 20 Jul 2006 11:27pm
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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the pit should be a fun place, not some where to get hurt... Sure it happens, often cause of some moron who thinks their all punk rock, or metal or what ever, and has some thing to prove, but normally you are not in there to hurt people, and in any good pit people should not have to be able to bench or leg press any ammount to be able to dance and have fun... Even the hardcore kids for all the flack they take understand this for the most part, except mayby joey, but thats just joey...

No wonder 80% of people in bands in our scene are men, and no wonder our scene in general is so male doninated... It was these kind of attidudes that fucked up the edmonton scene a lot, and they have about 20% women in their scene it seams... I have met gals that figure they could not make it in a pit, but they never tryed, and I think the only person that I ever met that could not be in the pit was disabled... I seen little kids go in the pit, shit a 4 yr old in edmonton at a ripcordz show, his name was GG.

As far as your "are we so pc" crap, nah, just we aint sexist, and realize women are not our inferiors...

as for dumbest thread of history, I think the "name the worste metal bands you ever scene" one may have to take that place... - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 12:23am
Tyler
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"Even the hardcore kids for all the flack they take understand this for the most part, except mayby joey, but thats just joey..."

ahahaha - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 1:37am
Jeremy Baker
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my vote for worst thread goes to any number of the "rape" threads that get flamed up on here.

This one could have been worded better... I don't go in the pit any more. I am too old, I'll let the 14 -year-olds and aggros have at each other and actually try to enjoy the show... or get drunk in the beer garden. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 10:31am
Mofo
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CHICKS IN THE PIT...haha...lame
all the power to chicks in the mosh pit...if they wanna join. maybe the dumbest thread this week but interesting nonetheless. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 10:32am Edited: Fri, 21 Jul 2006 10:32am
Tragedy
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Boobs or no boobs, enter at your own risk!!

And most of the time I will...all 120 lbs. of me, and I don't mind if I get a dislocated rib, a black eye or a fat lip every now and then. I just think, is it worth it? Somedays it is, somedays it aint. At the tolmie hell house easter show last year I got a concussion and my ankle length skirt ripped right up to my hip and I made my date give me his pants. What a sweetie. I repaid him by having his baby. So there ya go!! - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 11:14am
Eurydice
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Mofo, I heart you and that picture. Obviously us chicks know we're being watched over, or else why would we do it? Sheesh. Silly boys... - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 12:38pm
Matteus
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Yeah, not well worded, but half the people got what I was trying to get across.
First, I was refering to the larger moshpits like at warped tour, oz fest and large concerts, not ones here. There's a thousand people pressing down on you and you have to be able to hold your own in there or risk the chance of getting hurt (which is kinda the fun of it all).
Or for example, I saved this one girl from getting her neck snapped from a guy who had been launched from the back of the pit 4 feet in the air. He would have landed right on her neck. I pulled her out of the way and the guy landed on his spine. She looked and me and said "thanks" like I had just held open a door for her, not saved her from injury.
And trust me XJayX, if your wife wants to throw it down, cool. It's all fair game in those pits.
I never said "WOMEN" were weak, but when you're 80-100 pounds of barbie doll punk chick, then you should think twice about that kind of punishment.

matteus
"the dumbest thread ever" - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 2:26pm
KnifeGhost
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"Hoorah for women as equals, but come on, are we so PC that we can't accept that women are generally less fit for the pit?"

Man, that's not it at all. It's just dumb, political correctness has nothing to do with it. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 3:04pm
alain
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"Man, that's not it at all. It's just dumb, political correctness has nothing to do with it."

I'll gladly agree with you, but you'll have to explain yourself a bit more. The way I understood it was that people thought it was wrong to say that girls are generally not built for moshpits, which seems very PC to me. What if someone said that women were generally less good at, say, hockey? Would that be ok? It's pretty similar to me, but it seems there's a stigma around saying that kinda stuff in other situations. It seems everyone's so afraid of sounding sexist that they can't acknowledge real, let's say statistical, differences. Maybe I missed what everyone is in upheaval about.
Enlighten me. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 4:27pm
tristan
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pits are gay to begin with. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 4:43pm
Mr. Hell
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I only enjoy a pit if I'm drunk and it's a band like Motorhead, or some other band I grew up on and rarely, if ever get to see.
As Endeløs said, everyone should be welcome into the pit. One takes the risk no matter who they may be, and if they get hurt, I will give them a kick in the ribs as they are dragged out. Acting like a douche bag is acceptable and encouraged for everyone! - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 4:54pm
Mordock.the.Benzite
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Regardless of who's participating in it I think moshing is pretty much fucking retarded. Just one jerks opinion. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 5:08pm
alain
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I'm not into moshpits either. The concept is pretty lame to me, and I'm afraid I'd crush people without trying. I'm not exactly Kenny Bania huge, but 6'4" and 240lbs vs. many of the small moshers these days...
I am a fan of seeing people mosh to my music though. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 5:09pm
Spinvis
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Agreed with Mordock.

Also there has been much more retarded topics than this in the past on this board. *cries* - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 5:12pm
Alias Unknown
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Warped wasn't just full of girls who didn't know the rules of the pit but guys as well. I mean me being one of the "old sweaty mosh guys" for that show I had to show a lot of em the rules of the pit. People were just falling over, especially for NoFX (which I think has been one of the crappiest crowds I've seen in a long time), and they weren't getting picked up, shoes were going everywhere and no one did the shoe hold up thing... all in all I'm very disappointed with Warped pits. The other beef with Warped was AFI, I mean come on lil goth and emo guys and girls, its AFI, if you knew any of their old stuff you'd know that there would be a pit in that show, albeit a small one. Don't wind up and try to kick me in the nuts cause you don't know anything about the band you came to see. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 6:18pm Edited: Fri, 21 Jul 2006 6:27pm
KnifeGhost
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Alain, what bugs me most isn't the idea that a 112 girl is out of her weight class in a pit full of 230 pound guys. That's pretty uncontroversial, and I don't think that's what anyone's reacting to.

What bugs me is the idea that those girls don't know exactly what they're getting themselves into. It's good to be careful not to hurt anybody in a pit, but there's not reason to assume that girls in the pit are any more or less aware of the dangers and how to handle themselves. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 7:58pm
Ward Ensemble
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what about the 98 lb dudes in the pit who don't know what they're getting into? Whats the difference to a truly enlightened man? Men may be weaker, as our plumbing is on the outside, and considerably sensitive. I've had little guys target me BECAUSE I'm un-small, and thats gotta be more annoying than a chick just trying to get out some aggression and have a good time. Unless they're kicking YOUR ass, what's the problem? - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 11:03pm
lauren a
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since when do we have to beat the shit out of eachother to enjoy music? for the amount of injuries that come from the 'pit' it doesn't really seem worth it to me. i realize that makes me sound like a square but really now. i've never felt the need to punch my fellow neighbour because an aggressive song was playing. - Fri, 21 Jul 2006 11:47pm
Tyler
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pits aren't about beating each other! but I also believe the sort of shoulder-checking is a really dumbed-down take on something that can be a lot more fun and interesting - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 12:05am Edited: Sat, 22 Jul 2006 12:14am
alain
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KnifeGhost, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, and hope that it's that, and not stupid PC crap. I just wish people would say something substancial instead of popping in, yelling "Worst. Thread. Evar." and leaving. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 12:19am
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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agreed... Pits are not about bviolence, just moving to the music, having fun, exspending energy, and there should be no weight class needed for that. I love the pits at a good show, i don't go in as much as I use to, but shit if I make it to the ripcordz, I will probably enjoy a quick dip in the pit. I have never punched any one in a pit, and when people are doing shit like that you pull em aside and exsplain this is dancing not ufc, when people fall you pick em up, in propper pits there is seldome an injury, some skanking, some pushing, and dancing, and maybey some riding on shoulders, or shit in a bigger pit some crowd surfing... I saw the UK Subhumans in Montreal, a massive pit probably 2000 people, and people were still super cool. I was in the pit when conflict played the next night to a crowd of 1000, no problems. I don't go into a pit to hurt or get hurt, so I guess I don't know what I am getting into, maybe what was meant by this thread was that small people should be more carefull choosing which pits to go into, cause some have stupit people dancing in them. A good pit is fun, and no one gets hurt, or at least not often, or badly. Thats the point of the pit, to have fun. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 12:33am
KnifeGhost
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Alain, thanks for hearing me out, but quite frankly what would it matter to you if it was "stupid PC crap"? - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 12:04pm
Rawb
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A lot of this thread is a series of people explaining what they'd like pits to be. ot what they are or where they came from.

Once upon a time pits were violent. The very nature of their existance was built on agression and frustration and was a further extension of what was a very agressive form of music. Especially in the Hardcore scene in it's early days.

Now I'm not saying that (usually) people were out to hurt each other, but that was often the end result. We would pick each other up and help each other out but just as much as that kind of "community" positive spirit was represented so too was the expectation of intensity and aggression. The danger was part of the fun.

I think denying the violent nature of "moshing"-a word I dislike-is kind of like lieing to yourself.

Maybe it's not smart or particularly nice but that's always kind of what was at the heart of the activity. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 1:25pm
alain
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Well, there's good PC and there's bad PC, and this seemed to be bad PC to me.
It matters to me the same way it mattered to you that it wasn't.
There's no point really, it's just internet debate. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 1:36pm
You Enjoy Myself
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Anyone who says this is the worst thread ever, must have missed the last 4,367 threads Griphin started. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 7:46pm
alcoholly
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"PC" is the stupidest shit ever. Fuck PC!! - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 7:49pm
ROSS B AY
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Fuck you, PC rules! Everybody should be the same fuck personality and originality you don't get paid that way. - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 10:19pm
alcoholly
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go walk on some fuckin' eggshells you moneygrubbing conformist... - Sat, 22 Jul 2006 10:53pm
Hang the dj
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Me- 6 ft 1
Equipment- Steel toe boots

I can handle the pit. - Sun, 23 Jul 2006 1:54pm
Tragedy
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Me- 5 foot 6 (and a half).
Equipment- Bag of frozen peas, bottle of tylenol 3.

Just giver. - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 12:24am
Mofo
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note to self, never again wear sandals in the pit - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 7:27am
Suffuckation
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You should be ashamed to wear sandals under any circumstance. - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 1:31pm
Curmudgeon Rocker
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Respect is really, really important in the pit. And nothing says respect like my 7" wristos. - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 7:40pm
jay brown
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Well I started going in the pit in the early eighties and still go in when it's a good show. Without a doubt pretty much every single show I have ever been to there has been a few girls up front in the pit that really have no clue and are always about one second away from having someone removing the top of their head. It's not sexist, it's a fact six foot tall, two hundred pound guys going nuts is not an enviroment most women would be able to survive in. I have seen many women got knocked flat on their ass and a few of them I have seen k.o.ed because of it. Then of course everyone gets mad at the guy cause he was in a mosh pit doing his thing. Well really now if you want to play where the guys are acting like animals dont expect them to act like anything else. If you want to dance to the band at a show where there is a pit going on, dont bother going in unless your prepared to get hurt it is really that simple. It isnt fair to the girls to get smacked around in the pit, but it isnt fair to the guys to have to stop having fun just because it isnt politically correct to hit a girl. I mean can you imagine how mad everyone would be at a PC show if a girl got k.o.ed in the pit, oh the vegans, and crusty punks would be whining about it for months....... - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 9:52pm
jay brown
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P.S., to the guy that started this thread, you just came back from the vans warped tour and never moshed so much in your life, and it was sweet...... you are without a doubt the gayest gay guy ever. I cannot believe you managed to type that with your false nails on. It is amazing you could see the keyboard past your stick on eyelashes. Or for that matter to lean close enough to type with your fake tits in. At least most other drag queens have the self respect to just stick to Diana Ross or Deelite or other disco remixes. Saying vans warped tour was sweet is like saying you like cock popsicles and please sir may you have another. - Mon, 24 Jul 2006 9:58pm
lauren a
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check and mate. - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 12:43am
princess p
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Jay Brown you are a funny funny man.

As far as pits go well I don't understand them and they piss me off. I'm short and if I'm paying to see a band play I want to see the band play. I hate having to stand at the back where all I get to see is a bunch of smelly crazy people stomping around with their elbows out bashing eachother in the arms. Why do we have to hit eachother to show appreciation for music.

just my two cents I figured I read the whole thing so I might as well say something about it. - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 12:59am
kristian
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mosh pits are too much excersize! jesus why would you want to do that at a concert.

if go to see a band why would you want to sweat out of every pore in your body!!!

i dunno...but even though i don't understand mosh pits...i do agree that whoever started this thread is really not smart. i'm sure a girl could handle a mosh pit fine, probably beat the shit out of me, maybe it has more to do with size but it probably just has more to do with people using their brains before they go into a big "pit" of thrashing human beings. - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 7:28am
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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wtf? you are not sopose to go into a pit to hurt people, that kind of shit is lame... I remember my first pit, and I been going ever scince, it is fun, but every once in a while you do get dome drunk moron falling all over the place, or some kid with some thing to prove trying to be all tough and hurt people, I know I once was that kid, but I smartend the fuck up as I grew up. Basically you got to deal with those people, you can have fun, in the pit with out trying to show how tough you are... It aint rocket science it is dancing... - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 12:08pm
todd
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wtf? you are not sopose to go into a pit to hurt people, that kind of shit is lame... I remember my first pit, and I have been going ever scince, it is fun, but every once in a while you do get dome drunk moron falling all over the place, or some kid with some(no space)thing to prove trying to be all tough and hurt people,(should be period) I know I once was (was once) that kid, but I smartend the fuck up as I grew up. Basically you have got to deal with those people,(should be period) You can have fun, in the pit with out trying to show how tough you are... It aint rocket
science it is dancing.
F- Dumbass - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 1:29pm Edited: Tue, 25 Jul 2006 1:36pm
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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you smrt... that was sooo funny, like you couldn't critisize my point so you mock my spelling? How fucking origional... Never been done before you know.
ok, here it, pay attention... I type fast when I am in a hurry, as many people on online shit do, and don't edit, and don't care... Also I cunt spell... As most people already know.
your my hero, I wanna have your baby. - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 3:47pm
todd
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LOL. I don't really care to critisize your point. You really didn't have any. Just dull annoyingly illegible rhetoric. Don't be such a pillow-biter and stop whining. - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 4:09pm
kristian
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haha you "cunt spell"!!! - Tue, 25 Jul 2006 11:23pm
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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seams to me that every one on here just attacks each other personally rather than discussing the points, rather than debating the opinions, and so on.... I am sure I too at times am guilty, but some days it just gets really fucking annoying. - Wed, 26 Jul 2006 1:42pm
build more prisons
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I assume having your futile beliefs and lame arguments shot to shit gets annoying too... - Wed, 26 Jul 2006 3:38pm
jordan F.
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"you think equel rights means equal hits. We're sick of all your tough guy shit".-GCF

fuck i think its great when girls go in the pit. If some one falls guy or girl help them up. Its not rocket science!

later - Thu, 27 Jul 2006 12:52pm
Tyler
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yes! good clean fun! who shares wins! - Fri, 28 Jul 2006 12:18am
NOISE NOT BOMBS
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Good Clean Fun are great, esspecailly In Defense Of All Life (even if it is over played in comparison to their other shit) - Fri, 28 Jul 2006 4:19pm
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