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is it just me?
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J
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or is this msg board section "seeking musician's" a bit of a farce?
I've tried sooooooo many times since my last band broke up to find people here to start something with.... and all people talk about is "oooh ok, we'll set something up for next week"... and what transpires is an endless game of phone tag until you hear that its just been a waste of time cause the people you are going to jam with aren't interested anymore... FUCK DOES THAT EVER PISS ME OFF!!! just be straight up with someone dont fuck around... i've put off and sacrificed alot of nights waiting and waiting to hear from people and all i get is a fucking wasted night out of it... sorry if im wasting anyones time by ranting its jsut that i'm getting pissed off about how many musicians there are and how many are willing to try something new... VERY FEW...
well i'm done now... sorry again if i bored you or if your looking at your computer screen thinking im an idiot... fucksakes im just looking for people to play/jam with and have some fun... - Tue, 25 Jan 2005 2:33pm
Curmudgeon Rocker
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J: we ARE dealing with musicians, you know. - Tue, 25 Jan 2005 4:56pm
Luc
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I'll tell ya man sometimes it is a pain in the ass. I know people who have been searching on that board forever! All I can say is that from experience, persistance pays off.......eventually........ - Tue, 25 Jan 2005 6:03pm
Anonymous
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It's just you. - Tue, 25 Jan 2005 8:05pm
Onemosphere
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Aww. Muffin. - Tue, 25 Jan 2005 9:24pm
J
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as for the constructiveness of the anon's comment i have nothing to say...
still in the hunt... and yeah persistance hopfully will pay off!!!
I know there's people out there!!! somewhere.... please... lol - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 10:12am
ML7Mike
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I can name a dozen bands that formed on that forum.

And...

"or is this msg board section "seeking musician's" a bit of a farce?"

How do unreliable musicians make the message board section a farce? You make it seem as tho the mods were posting phony adds to make it look used. - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 11:50am
Mi*coll*
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musicians are scumbags. - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 11:54am
Livevic Scott
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To let the truth be known the mods on this board are FAR too lazy to create anything falsely =) *laugh* - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 12:03pm
Helonwheels
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It can be difficult just to get an existing band together to jam and practice, we all know that.
It becomes even more difficult just trying to establish a 'try-out' between strangers and their schedules but it can work.

Once you're all hooked up and diggin the rock'n then you won't even remember how painful this experience has been, kind of like the way yer brain makes ya forget how painful childbirth is so that you do it again. - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 12:40pm
ML7Mike
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bwuahaha!

Hey, why does the board say I started this thread?? - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 12:41pm
Helonwheels
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It totally does! Haahaa. - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 12:48pm
ML7Mike
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maybe the 'mods' did it to fuck with me! - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 1:04pm
Wig
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this board is only one of many soucres for finding people to make music with.
every music store in this town has a cork board in their store. and the same could be said about any one store if thats the only place you looked.

i myself find it hard to find other people, because i'm not a bassist or a drummer. i'm a guitar/vox player like every one else looking for a drummer and a bassist and maybe even a keyboard player. i found a drummer though a sales rep that came into my work and we were chatting about music. still need a bassist though... maybe one will walk through the door today.

in the past years i found one bassist through live vic and one through the cork board at l&m. both times it was a wanted add that i had not them.

so hey! do you play bass? do you like the smell of pot? will you bring beers atleast once a month? - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 1:07pm
Mystery Geust
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I,ve had nothing but good luck with the board and finding muscians. But maybe thats beacuse i,m a bass player and we seem to be in short demand. My advice to people "patience and determination" It does sound cheesy, but you'll find something eventually. hey Justin i,m looking forward to getting together finally. - Wed, 26 Jan 2005 2:02pm
J
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this one is only for ML7(starter of this post :P)... well I find it a bit of a farce when the board says "seeking musicians" yet there aren't(from my experience) anybody seeking anything other than a tug job from someones mum... but i've since found people to jam with... so im going back to liking it... its no longer bad :) so this whole post is pointless!!! hahahah what a waste of TIME!!! hahahahah!!! waste more time!!!! that's all the time i can afford to waste though :) - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 11:49am
ML7Mike
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I DID NOT START THIS POST!
YOU DID!

:P ..
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Mystery Geust
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this topic is awesome now. I love it! - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 12:43pm
MP
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*this topic is awesome now. I love it!* -Mystery Geust
Are you saying that you love topics on sphincters? - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 1:52pm
Død[]Sanger
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J, What you have to realize is that victoria is rather small..

When you think about how meny people on average/age group that are going to turn out to be musicians + the odds of instrument you need + odds of similar musical tastes leaves Victoria pretty barren at the end...

All you can do is keep posting and hope some people turn up, or move to a bigger city...

I've been looking for people to jam with for years on here, only once have I had an audition with a formed band with similar tastes from a reply... the rest have just been scattered people in the same boat lurking around... Just gonna have to try rounding em' up and hope for the best... - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 3:06pm
J
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i hear that;) - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 4:32pm
MP
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Where've you been, Dod[]Sanger! I've missed you terribly! - Thu, 27 Jan 2005 4:37pm
john
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I find it much more reliable to find a wife online then a musicican - Tue, 1 Feb 2005 3:01pm
Broccoli
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Hey, THATS IT!

You guys can get some Russian mail-order bass players.

Also: That Heinous Anus makes me want to hurl.
Please: No more gaping anus' shots. ever. anywhere. - Tue, 1 Feb 2005 6:54pm
Spark
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I have had a hell of a lot of success on this board finding musicians. I think it has to do with your approach.
If someone posts something negative on your topic, ignore it.. I can't count the number of times I came across a post from a musicain with similar interests as myself where had they not freaked out at some negative post in some ignorant manner or another, I would have replied or emailed them. - Tue, 1 Feb 2005 7:46pm
J
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yeah... but sometime you gotta mix it up a little ;)
i've had success too... but im sure there's people out there that were thinking the same thing but didn't say anything. And currently, it hasn't been so bad... maybe a few mistakes made on both parts but whatever... like i said... just mixin' it up (and wanted to see what everyone else thought) - Thu, 3 Feb 2005 8:01pm
lonemonk
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Yes, It's just you. - Sat, 5 Feb 2005 12:23am
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