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Question for men!
| Message Board > General Chitchat > Question for men! |
| BBJones User Info... | are you hot? - Wed, 11 Feb 2004 11:06pm | ||
| mi.coll. User Info... | yup-- here we go! brace yourself for the shit storm. note: the losers on this board (myself included appearently) are NOT who you want to come to for relationship advice. - Wed, 11 Feb 2004 11:06pm | ||
| FeLiXtheCaT User Info... | i would love it if some guy would want crazy sex 3 times a night with me. it's been awhile since i've had that kind of attention. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 1:04am | ||
| _Griphin_ User Info... | Here's the truth, and I shit you not. Most women are into abusive men, they've been in similar relationships, and they crave that. I think it's an animalistic thing. Guys like me who are pleasant and intelligent, but have no self esteem girls really shy away from. Now I might be half cut, but my last relationship was into one thing, sex, I kid you not. But we're getting into another subject, and I could babble on that fer hours. I mean I could get into 3 relationships at work, but the women just don't do it for me. Why can't I find a female who's awesome looking and intelligent? And that's nuff said! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 1:12am | ||
| anti-blue-up User Info... | Kitty, I'm in the exact same WTF? boat with you. I've pondered those exact questions for the past three weeks (non-stop it seems) and the only thing I can come up with is that you need to have more than one guy in your life at the same time. My theory (so far) is that you should have...hmm...at least three guys on the go at the same time. The guy you can have long, interesting conversations with. The guy you can have abusive, animal (thanks _Griphin_)sex with three times a night. The 'buddy' you can take to shows/parties without him getting all punchy at every other guy you talk to. Perhaps one day I'll be able to Frankenstein them all together and make one, perfect male companion. Mind you, I'm also thinking I might just need to move to a city where the girl/guy ratio isn't 2.5 to 1 -arrrrgh. I think we can safely take comfort in the fact that every guy out there has asked the same questions about the women in their life. ah, fuck it we're all just confused (and drunk). - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 4:42am | ||
| Anonymous User Info... | From my experiences it�s the women who think they just want un-attached wild sex until the passion of lovemaking takes them over and they want a commitment. Jealousy and insecurities take over and everything gets retarded. They think they�re falling in love. The worst experience for me was when a woman I knew who thought she was a lesbian trusted me in a mutual unattached sexual relationship. She was the one to approach me in saying there would be no attachments in the sex. Couple months later after I met someone I wanted exclusive, I told her I couldn�t do it anymore. Some time later I found out she slit both her wrists in a suicide attempt. I was devastated. If she would have looked at the passion in the sex as sexual healing as a way to discover her sexual pleasure with �passionate men only� then her emotions might have been preserved. The women who get attached can make me feel guilty for allowing a connection of passion in the sex itself and destroy what started it all. What I found now is security in sexual healing with bi-curious women. In a non-threatening shared situation (threesome). These women have been hurt and need non-ego driven sexual healing. Kiss their feet, give em head, and worship their bodies so they feel they are a beautiful woman again. Sometimes I only put out energy with no physical touch. It�s all about communication and knowing ones self. 1. Don�t confuse sexual passion with love. 2. Deep eye contact is forbidden esp. at intense moments 3. Enjoy the beauty of passion and leave the ego behind. Woman who just want ravaging sex, that�s what bars are good for. Kitty, your not alone in your views/desires. Being honest with yourself and the men you sleep with should solve your problems. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 7:28am | ||
| Tragedy User Info... | I live in Sooke. There are NO guys out here. Just self absorbed drunken rednecks and hippys that all share the same 16 year old girlfriend and have matching cold sores. It's pretty sad. I want to know why women are cursed with maturity, while guys stay in their teens for years. We evolve, they pass out in a ditch on the way back to their mom's basement. It's a cruel joke. No offense, guys. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 7:46am | ||
| D�d[]sanger User Info... | I've consulted Adam Corolla on this one and think I have all your answers for you: "WTF do you want?? Every fuckin' guy I meet wants to get in my pants" Thats not true, you could be wearing a skirt... "Why can't there be a nice balance of mutual friendship and respect while having crazy sex 3 times a night?" Start drinking more than he can at a sitting, he'll give you all the respect in the world and would never bring over the guys to see a girlfriend of his drink him under the table! "Sometimes I start out being friends with a guy, and then we eventually sleep together, and the whole friendship dissolves into grunts and pillow talk....WTF??!?" Take up the hobby of getting loaded and going to see migdet mud wrestling! I'd like to see how much grunting and pillow talk he can pull off there! "men who claim to want an independant, outgoing woman, then feel threatened when they find one!" Yeah they do suck don't they? " men who get jealous of their girlfriend having male friends...." Thats because 1/2 of those men want to earn a privelage from friendship. "Or men who want you to adore and worship them, but not be too "clingy" at the same time.....and always be available when they call." Wow, those men you describe sound like women to me. "I know it's mostly men on this board, so please, tell me (seriously) WTF DO YOU WANT???????" It's simple ladies, men want one of four things: Booze Food Entertainment Sex If we tell you otherwise, we're probably lying to get to one of these things. *Sorry guys,hahaha* - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:08am | ||
| Tragedy User Info... | Spoken like a true gentleman! It's true. Men really are that simple. Women just can't accept the fact that that's all there is to it. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:41am | ||
| Shaggy User Info... | Anonymous hit it right on the damn head. Good post! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:42am | ||
| X Beauty User Info... | UGH!! does her post smell like STD's?... Gawd woman! get a dildo, hump a tree, GO PRO... do whatever.. JUST GET REAL... if a guy was totally into what your doing.. you wouldn't let him outta the house.. GUYS... do you see this gal as a cougar in the future? - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:42am | ||
| D�d[]sanger User Info... | Go pro? Hahha Word is chryst-al-mighty can turn you into a superstar! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:57am | ||
| X Beauty User Info... | heehe ...well as a pro, she can have all the friendliness she wants... spread em and she can have it 3 times a day by a friendly exchange with no strings attached.. at least it saves damaging the good guys out there. She just messed up her potential now.. geez.. who wants to go out with her now? - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 10:10am | ||
| Dick Splint User Info... | Trying to mould someone is useless. Accepting a person's idiosyncrasies, opinions, habbits, beliefs and desires and then loving them, respecting them and thanking them for all of it, is not. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 10:35am | ||
| BOHDAN User Info... | all of your answers are right here http://www.itsmedave.com/respect.asp - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 11:24am | ||
| BBJones User Info... | Well if you're hot, come out to the AWT/Self Inflicted/Johnsons show at the Cambie on Feb 27th, then the Pariah/AllFather/SeasonOfSorrow/Mitochondrion show on the 28th. Then, all your problems will be solved :) - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 11:49am | ||
| JIMMY B AY User Info... | We evolve, they pass out in a ditch on the way back to their mom's basement. It's a cruel joke. No offense, guys Hey now, ah didn't pass out in the ditch! I must a' rolled into it in m' sleep! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 12:50pm | ||
| Tragedy User Info... | Woah, don't get me wrong, I don't think all guys are like that. But I'm sure we all know a few. I'm no man hater, I love men. I think they're groovy. I just pick the lousy ones. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 1:03pm | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | Date metal, you know we're all class... *muffled chuckling* - Convert your friends! - - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 1:29pm | ||
| Wreaker of Havoc User Info... | BBJones. Hate to break it to ya but I think Kitty Kalypso is a girl....... - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 1:52pm | ||
| Perpetual_Burn User Info... | Know what most women want but just don't know yet? The VIOLATOR!!!! Rawr! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 2:01pm | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | VIOLATOR!!!!!!! *Makes the twisted V gesture* And hey BB - what about Allfather's show tomorrow at lucky? It's the anti-valentines day show too - good fit for this thread, haha - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 2:05pm | ||
| X Beauty User Info... | DOD!! keep the retards away from the metalheads.. those men need to be saved for the metalboobs maann! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 2:50pm | ||
| BBJones User Info... | A girl? What a waste of my witty charm. Dammit! Yeah, go to the Allfather show tomorrow if you want some action ladies, Wreaker is letting people braid his back hair on stage. How could you miss that! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 3:14pm | ||
| Tragedy User Info... | Are you calling me a retard, Troll? You sound like a bitter little high school bitch. Save your attitude for drama class. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 3:20pm | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | Metalboobs? In Victoria? Someone call Ripley's!!!!!!! - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 3:23pm | ||
| Nik Olaz User Info... | If you ask me I want someone smart, independent and fairly nice looking. I'm not talking ridiculously attractive, but good looking enough that i can bare to stare at for more than 5 seconds. And brains to me do count, i'll be damned if i'm going to hang out with a really dumb girl. And indepencence more as in they are more of themselves, adhering to their own style and not just copying their friends. And what the hell happened to love? I mean like the real gut emotion of it? Everyone's on this fucking "I need to get laid trip" get the fuck over yourself, there's more to life than just sex. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 7:07pm | ||
| Stan User Info... | >getting laid" part screws everything up I disagree personally...if two people are attracted to each other, have good sex, there is usually something else that causes the breakup. If two people get along, it's not so hard to have a good fuck, have a kip, then wake up and talk about whatever. But...eventually, something else creeps in that destroys the perfect little facade, ;). - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 8:31pm | ||
| FeLiXtheCaT User Info... | hey Kitty Kalypso, everytime you say something the more you sound like a slut. i think it's great that you want to tell everyone on this site that. i think your funny; quote: It seems that the "getting laid" part screws everything up. All relationships should be based on the initial friendship, and my point was that everything turns to shit once sex gets involved. quote:...."a balance of mutual respect and friendship, while having crazy sex 3 times a night". That is what makes a good relationship, in my opinion. Have fun together, respect each other, and be passionate with each other. quote:I am pretty hot....and I DEMAND sex from guys that I'm dating at LEAST twice a night!But here's the catch; you have to respect me as an individual, and not just your sex toy. quote: I start out being friends with a guy, and then we eventually sleep together, and the whole friendship dissolves into grunts and pillow talk....WTF??!? you make me laugh. you want respect, well then stop sleeping with your friends, then maybe you might get some respect. i think some of these guys your getting with have noticed your routine with boys and use you as a easy peice of ass. hahaa. all i have to say is good for you. metal boys? where are they all hiding? someone should let me at them. - Thu, 12 Feb 2004 9:55pm | ||
| Masturbating The War God User Info... | http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ Have fun Kitty, Tom will explain it all. I think though, different people click differently, Sometimes you meet someone and have great sex, and that is all, or it could turn into a relationship or whatever. Of course men want sex, it's who they are. Woman also decide if they'll sleep with a man within the first few minutes, or so they say. Felix, lets have a metal boy auction! haha - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 9:33am | ||
| FeLiXtheCaT User Info... | i'd be up for an auction! just we need to find some to auction off. i don't know about you but i haven't found any, i think they are rare on the island or they just hide out. - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 10:22am | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | I've got 3 to auction off to yah , wuahahaha, bidding only starts at $5.00 each - THats right!!! Tonite @ Lucky - 5 MEASLEY dollars and you can take home a "classy" headbanger of your very own!!! ~All procceds go to the get Violator drunk fund of Victoria~ *And hey MBTWG - Get that blasphemous bender picture away from me, hes stealing one of my lines goddamnit!!* *And Perpetual, You'd be one of the bitches I'm pimping off so I'll just tell you right now, stfu or taste my pimp kane!* - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 11:18am | ||
| Masturbating The War God User Info... | $5!! Too rich for my blood, I like 'em cheap. And as for Bender...Kiss my shinny metal ass! - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 12:34pm | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | Well Jordan and silas are only selling for 1.75 hhahahah - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 12:38pm | ||
| FeLiXtheCaT User Info... | i say 0.50 cents a peice sounds more like it. that way the girls can save more money for drinking. - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 1:27pm | ||
| ROSS B AY User Info... | shit at that price they can buy us booze man. please? DAMMIT I SAID FUCKING PLEASE.... - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 1:33pm | ||
| D�d[]Sanger User Info... | Ross you drunken bastard, the whole idea is they give ME money to get drunk and I hand them over "CLASSY"*underline that* metalheads to molest, noone ever said they had to buy them beer! But hey man, you'll get all the beer you can drink from the procceds and tips you and BB will get for promoting wrecker's epic back hair brading show! I just hope my "hoes" can compete with that level of manliness!!! Hahahhaa - Fri, 13 Feb 2004 1:36pm | ||
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