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r.i.p. Richard Lawrence
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metalqueen
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With great sadness, our good friend Rich passed away. Rich will be deeply missed but never forgotten. Rich always made a mean spaghetti, and threw some of the best parties back in the day. Rich always had a warm heart and always opened his home for friends in need. My condolences to all his family and friends. We love ya buddy. - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 9:00am
Meantime Mike
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Im still reeling.. We'd lost touch over the past few years but still so many memories. Rich was a very kind and generous friend over the years and even helped coin the term 'lets get Rich'd!' and I suspect a few people will be doing just that.

Condolences to Rich's dad Peter, Im sure he is devastated. - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 9:51am
Dr.DoomXXX
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My condolences. I'm sure I never met the guy but just a couple hours ago I found out my friend Aaron died so I'm sure I'm feeling the same way. Partially in denial but also remembering the good times. I poured a sip on the floor for Aaron who can't be here and here goes another for rich. His friends and family have my sympathy. - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 11:05am
Mr. Hell
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Very sad passing.
Rich was always friendly, respectful and willing to lend a hand. I have many great and hilarious memories of hanging out with him.
RIP, Mr. Lawrence. - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 11:19am
XY-SATAN
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Whoa, I did not expect this. I only talked to him a few months ago downtown.

Rich was a great guy, can't count the number of times I've partied with the dude , fuck we're going to miss you bro. : (

My condolences to Rich's family and friends, he will be sorely missed.

(anyone know the cause?) - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 3:27pm
Darren 13 Flames
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I met Rich downtown close to 20 years ago.Always had great conversations about music.Can't begin to count the great times that I shared with him.Rich was without a doubt my favorite patron at the Icehouse.On several occasions I would let him stay after hours so we could play pool.Me being stone cold sober and hanging out in a pool hall for 10 years still would struggle for a win.Without the slightest doubt one of the kindest hearts ever to grace us.The smile and the nod of his head was heartwarmig today when I was thinkin of him.I have learned over the years to not mourn a loss but celebrate the life.To his family my deepest sympathies.Rest easy my fallen brother.Darren Kitson - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 5:12pm
babyg
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I met Rich downtown when I was about 18 and he was such an awesome, friendly guy. He came to several of my Brass Rail parties on Scott Street back in the day and we've rolled in the same circle ever since. I have many hilarious memories as well, including that night from the pic Mike posted! That made me laugh! Cheers to Rich.
May he R.I.P. - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 6:10pm
jnifer
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I met Rich years ago as well, and will always remember his kind heart, how he would give the shirt off his back for his friends, and of course ..... his gorgeous blonde ringlets. Rich always made me laugh and smile, and he will never be forgotten. My condolences to Rich's family. We love you Rich...aka "Richard my son"....(inside joke)..Rest in Peace Rich - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 8:46pm Edited: Tue, 13 Nov 2007 8:48pm
glenn
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Rest In Peace Rich - Tue, 13 Nov 2007 9:26pm
Jody
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I met Rich allmost 20 yr's ago,many great memories an good times...Rich ,you will be sorley missed an loved, My condolences to his father Peter an family...Rest in peace buddy...xoxo - Wed, 14 Nov 2007 10:48am
mad max
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This is a hard one. You were one of the first people I met when I moved down island in the 80's. I can't even remember where any more. You where just alway's there ,and alway's will be. I feel like a brother is gone. I wish I had not been so hard on you sometimes. You asked me to help you get your shit together in the Burnside house . I feel like I failed you my friend. On saturday I will have a drink to pass . I'll miss you my friend. Adios - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:11am
Sedlec
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In follow up to XY SATAN - anyone knowm the cause? - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 10:36am
Meantime Mike
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Some very old pictures, these gotta be about 12-15 years old..

Kurt, Brooks, James, RICH, Graeme - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:20pm Edited: Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:23pm
Meantime Mike
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Rich, James and Dave Brooks. James is the drummer for Desensitized now.

note; so old, James is wearing a Power Hour shirt and has long hair - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:21pm Edited: Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:35pm
Meantime Mike
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This is the first time Ive ever seen these pictures as they were just sent to the memorial Facebook group.

Paul, RICH, me, Glenn..ahh so thats what I looked like when I was a teenager..

note; hightop runners! - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:25pm Edited: Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:26pm
Meantime Mike
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Jeff and Rich.. holding up the wall so others could party safely


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tom
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wow, a couple of photos up I notice an old Forced Entry T-shirt. Memories of Sancha (sp?) hall from '91. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 1:50pm
Meantime Mike
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yah i think RICH actually broke his arm in the mosh at that exact concert.. Forced Entry and The Accused and The Dayglos I think it was.. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 2:09pm
Kurt
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yes, and RICH gave me the shirt off his back to tourniquet my lacerated arm while awaiting an ambulance. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 2:26pm
tom
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Yi-ikes, a broken arm! That was a a massive pit for sure. Correct on the line-up, 'twas a great show. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 2:31pm
metalqueen
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Great pics guys...heres a few more which are also on facebook!!!.....notice on Rich's B-day cake a stick man with long curly blonde hair lol. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 4:53pm
metalqueen
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This one here I wasnt even 19 yet...good thing Rich and James could boot for me lol. - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 4:56pm
metalqueen
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Typical Richard look when hes not impressed!!! - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 4:57pm
metalqueen
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Halloween at the Icehouse - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 5:01pm
KimberleyKaos
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Rest Peacefully bro...

Just saw him recently, and he looked great, I thought. Glad I had a nice chat with him.

HOLY MUTHA FUCKN DAVE BROOKS...
Dave was always ma brother...didnt meet him til Shawnigan Lake later (me 17ish) when he had a pshyco hawk, looking like Phil Anselmo or something...thats when the gettings wuz good.
Jeff looks priceless...I didnt realize you had all known each other THAT long...you okay T? Call me if you need anything...

I was with Al B @ work when Jeffy called, it was pretty gross... - Thu, 15 Nov 2007 9:16pm Edited: Thu, 15 Nov 2007 9:17pm
XY-SATAN
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Who gives a fuck about Dave Brooks? Rich is dead. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 12:05am
KimberleyKaos
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Dave is a good friend of Rich's and Im sure he cares, friends in general discussing a group of friends, and their lost bro...Im sure conversations and pictures will run rampant. Its all related. Nice time to be so harsh, you had to ask for the reason of death, so Im guessing what you don't know is alot, and your tact shows as much in your other post, and now this.
Not a time for personal slams, dont you think. You're fucking brutal. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 12:19am
mad max
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if you know how to get ahold of dave please let him know. Last time I saw him was in red deer. His sister lives there. he need's to know his long time friend has died..... - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 12:36am
KimberleyKaos
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I will be seeing the crew upisland this Sat, and hopefully Dave as well. Id hate to be the one to break it to Dave, but it must be done, and by someone that loves him, and can handle his rage at this horrible news.
ML7 Mike, can you not reach him and others possibly faster - Boas' etc...?Otherwise my bro Farmer will have the hook up...(Sat) - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 12:43am Edited: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 12:44am
XY-SATAN
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Oh is that what you think KK?

"HOLY MUTHA FUCKN DAVE BROOKS...
Dave was always ma brother...didnt meet him til Shawnigan Lake later (me 17ish) when he had a pshyco hawk, looking like Phil Anselmo or something...thats when the gettings wuz good.
Jeff looks priceless...I didnt realize you had all known each other THAT long...you okay T? Call me if you need anything..."

I was with Al B @ work when Jeffy called, it was pretty gross."

Yeah, whatever.

Oh max are you the same guy who talks shit about people?

Really, fuck you all. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 3:24am Edited: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 3:26am
Meantime Mike
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Kim, Luke Boas is Max's cousin so he has been contacted already.. Nobody any of us know seem to know how to get ahold of Dave Brooks, just that he is working in Alberta somewhere. Someones from Luke's crew may have heard from him though. If anyone reading this board has contact with him it'd be appreciated to pass on the info.

People, this thread s about Rich and shouldnt turn into an arguement. Some of these people have known Rich for years and that includes Dave and Max. Some of us remember how close Dave and Rich were. Max and Rich were friends before I knew either of them. Max will spend his birthday as we spread Rich's ashes with his family this weekend.

Rich's family do know about this thread so PLEASE keep the personal drama elsewhere.

Thanks!


ps; there is a Facebook group for pics and memorial info's. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 8:52am Edited: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 11:54am
metalqueen
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Keep in mind that I gave this link to Rich's parents to read to show how many friends he had and that he would be missed. I really dont want this post ending up in C & Q section....so maybe we can keep our opinions to ourself and remember our good friend Rich. Thank-you PEACE - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 8:58am Edited: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 8:59am
Meantime Mike
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LAWRENCE, Peter Richard April 17, 1969 October 2007 Unexpectedly, Richard passed late October in Victoria at the age of 38. Richard leaves behind his mother Gail Keen (Al), his father Peter Lawrence (Rhoda), his sister Michelle Masood (Latif), his niece Serina, his nephew Yousef, his grandfather Donald, and extended family. As a family, we all shared in the joy and love Richard brought into our hearts, and the joy and love we returned to him. We are deeply saddened by Richard's sudden death, and we will miss and love him for eternity. In life, Richard liked spending time with his friends and family, his construction work, all sports, especially the Canucks, and he loved all animals. He enjoyed and supported many local bands. Richard was blessed with many very close friends, who are sharing memories of Richard's friendship, good humour, and generosity on the website livevictoria.com-general chitchat-RIP Richard. Richard's wishes were that a small group of family and friends would gather at an appropriate time, to celebrate his life, and typical of Richard, he didn't want too much fanfare. In lieu of flowers, the family wishes that anyone who chooses may donate to local food banks as a tribute to Richard. Love always. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 10:07am
mad max
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I remember when Rich , Tanya , and Rick moved to Calgary.First to go was Tanj.... to dam cold for her. Next was Rick... he just dissapeared.lol. Rich stuck er' out. Alot of party's at some of the crazy biker bar's . Hanging out with the big guy ...Chris Brown (RIP) Rich had dissapeared for about three month's so Chris , me , and my bro Ed went to his place he was living. With the horad beast , as he called her. His girl friend would'nt let him leave , Chris was 6"7 and threw him over his shoulder and walked out of the house.. dam funny. threw Rich in the truck ...we went and got all f#%^ up,,that night Rich moved in with Chris. Chris's ex girlfriend is devistated that Rich is gone. Tracy and Eddy will miss you. You made a big inpact on thier lives as well - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 11:42am
TIFFANY
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Its been years Rich I'm sad to know your gone. Many memories, good ones always! You were a great guy, a memory I will always have. It's a bit late to apologize for the permanent marker on the face when you were usually the fist to pass out, but I'm sure you knew it was all in fun Rich. Rest in peace buddy and say hi from all of us to those friends who passed before you. Too many friends lost over the years, way to many.

My condolences to the family, and many, many friends. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 1:02pm
mad max
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this is a funny one. a bunch of us went to this dingy bar in forest lawn in calgary.crapy part of the town. Rich was Riched and big Chris got him up line danceing. totally halarious . Rich could barly walk he was laughing so hard. bounceing off of Chris the tall bastard he was. like a rag doll. had some good times out there. Rich living in Calgary helped me realise that distance between friend's will not change , no matter how many year's your gone ,,,, in a sucked off far awawy cold place.... - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 1:51pm
Leya Costa
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Friends are the pillars on your porch. Sometimes they hold you up, sometimes they lean on you, and sometimes it's just enough to know that they are standing by.

Rich we are going to miss you. We all loved you. That so many of your friends knew your fathers name and speak of how awesome he is shows the love you were always, and will always be surrounded by.

much love, Leya Costa - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 3:03pm
jnifer
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I totally get that we are all a little "testy" these days considering we all lost a friend, but this site was listed in the TC obits for everyone to read and comment. Pete and family are going to be reading these and why should they have to go through the other BS. It is clearly not the time or place. Do you think we could stop the non-sense and drama? Its about Rich and memories, photos and stories of Rich, sure other people will come along with other stories, but lets keep on topic and come on, this is the worst time to be slammin eachother. - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 4:31pm
KimberleyKaos
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Yes, I agree completely, and am shocked the conversation even turned. The last time I saw Rich, we had a great talk, and laughed so hard we both had tears in our eyes, and it was relating to Dave in fact...Didnt know we had him as a freind in common, and the stories flowed. I actually took a great pic at the time, of our silly faces, and still teary eyes from laughing, and hope I can find it and scan it, to post soon.

I did not know Dave was in Alberta, so the chances of my help in this matter are slim, but as stated, my brother and others just might know more come tomorrow night, do the best I can. Any Boas is a freind of mine...do email me, Ive got pics and stories galore of Mike and Luke...

Sorry for any hassle...Kim - Fri, 16 Nov 2007 5:35pm Edited: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 5:36pm
Bones
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I was privelaged enough to be at the small gathering for Rich. As I said at the ceremony "Rich always seemed to be searching for his place in this world. It's pretty obvious that he found a place in everyones heart."
Farewell my friend. - Sat, 17 Nov 2007 6:48pm
Bounce
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I remember the first time I met Rich, it was at a party in Langford at my friends house, about 15 years ago, he came there with my friend Tanya and I went up to him and introduced myself, and he said "i'm Rich" now being a drunk little 16 year old, I thought he was being a perv and telling me he was rich like he had alot of money...so I said oh yeah...and walked away, went up to Tanya and said that guy just told me he was rich like I care...lol...and she said no his name is Rich like Richard.....so I walked back over and said sorry..hehehe...anyway Rich was a great guy, always smiling, very funny to have conversations with...very kind and gentle man, its very sad that he is gone, my heart goes out to his family and close friends....RIP - Sun, 18 Nov 2007 9:12am
KimberleyKaos
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Wow, well said Bones... - Sun, 18 Nov 2007 6:43pm
Meantime Mike
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The memorial was on Saturday, as well as spreading his ashes earlier in the day.

The memorial went well and there was a Spaghetti feast in honour of the ones Rich used to cook up for everyone back in the day. Lots of faces I hadnt seen in many years.

Thanks to Metalqueen for taking charge and getting it all going and thanks to everyone else who pitched in and helped out.

A group of us went to the Canucks game at GM place the next day and I left his picture and obit taped to the upper wall of GM Place looking down onto the ice (or stage!) It doesnt look like they ever clean the upper bowl area so hopefully he stays there for awhile! - Mon, 19 Nov 2007 11:20am
metalqueen
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Thank-you to everyone that helped out. It was a nice turn-out for all of Rich's friends...had some good laughs on some stories that were told and saw alot of peeps that I havent seen in a long time. - Mon, 19 Nov 2007 12:45pm
metalqueen
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cheers for Rich!!! - Mon, 19 Nov 2007 12:48pm
metalqueen
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and one more! - Mon, 19 Nov 2007 12:49pm
jnifer
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Aww awesome gesture Meantime Mike. Hows was the spaghetti everyone? - Mon, 19 Nov 2007 10:46pm
mad max
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spaghetti. between Tim's mom's cookie's and the Tequila . no room for spaghetti. Missed it . idiot - Tue, 20 Nov 2007 12:50am
KimberleyKaos
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Max dude, got some not so good news about Brooks, gonna email you right now... - Wed, 21 Nov 2007 12:15am
dk13Flames
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awesome guys wish I could have made it there.The coolest bunch of friends a person could have . We should get a game a hackysack together in the parking lot of the Goose sometime through the holidays.I am presently workin on my comeback show for 13 Flames and will be donating the proceeds to a memorial fund that will be set up in Richs' honor for underprivilaged kids to take music lessons.I will miss him at shows but know he is there (somewhere close to the pool table with a hand through a mug) - Wed, 21 Nov 2007 9:10pm
always_awake
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Rich, remember meeting you years ago, 1988 or something, at the Yates St apartment of Jeff's, James, Kurt, Dwight and others. You were such a cutie and always so nice. Lots of parties together.
RIP Blondie
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