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Sprocket
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ok...... I saw something rather disturbing today, as I was walking into the Tim Hortons in esquimalt, I was asked by two boys maybe around 15 years old....if I had a smoke....... I replied no I don't smoke...... then as the line up for coffee was long ...as usual... i was bearly in the door when a girl with a baby in a snugly on her chest walked out......the boys asked her for a smoke and she pulled out her pack and proceeded to give the boys a ciggarette....... she then lit up about two inches from her new born baby's head... as she dropped her arm after taking a drag.... her baby's arm hit the cherry of her smoke.... this girl didn't even look down to notice that she just almost or maybe did burn her baby........how discusting......... and there are people who really want children and can't have them....... yet some stupid ignorant fucking moron has one, and can't even muster the smarts to not smoke around her baby....... you know who you are ... you should be ashamed of yourself... tattoo on your face..... you fucking loser.......... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:04pm
trevor corey
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When I was a kid my mom flicked her smoke out of the car window. It blew back in my window and lit my teddy bear on fire. I was sound asleep and it was being used as my pillow at the time. - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:34pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:37pm
Sprocket
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oh my god....... thats bad........ - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:37pm
trevor corey
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I know....... I need a hug...... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:40pm
Sprocket
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i guess back in the old days people didn't realize how bad smoking is.....now....there is no excuse....when i see a pregnant woman with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth........ i want to hurt her.....but violence is not the answer.....lol......same with people smoking in the car with their kids......thats bad too.......and smokers...i'm not mocking you....... i chose not to smoke....my boyfreind smokes but i don't like it..... i'm just pissed off at all the bad parents whos kids don't have a choice but to smoke with them...... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 4:55pm
Chris Logan
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I'm pissed off about people who can't pick up a handbook of English usage. I'll recommend one - the Elements of English by Strunk & White. - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:26pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:28pm
Sprocket
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oooohhhhhh i gather your a smoker? like i said nothing against smokers in general............ sorry if my english is not up to your standards..... do you smoke around your kids?....... douche bag...i spelled that right...right? - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:38pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:41pm
Sprocket
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oh yeah...and what did i spell wrong? and is my english out of context......i may have wrote in short form....not a complete sentence,,,,,,,just to get the point across quicker....but your more than welcome to point out my short comings......please do.....it might help me become a better writer!!! its funny how many people mock other peoples spelling on live vic....... who cares?.....its a thread about bad mothers....not a spelling b!!!!!!!! - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:52pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 5:57pm
ForgottenJoe
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as far as i know.....and i am no spelling wizard....I tink yo spell douche bag like........DOUCHE BAG!!!...well done sprocket> - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 6:00pm
Sprocket
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how the hell did you get that pic of my mom? - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 6:04pm
Chris Logan
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Sorry, baby - you just sound stupid. - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 6:07pm
Sprocket
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first of all don't call me baby...... and why would you call me stupid? the only people who should be offended by this thread are the ones who know they are doing something wrong by smoking near there kids...... obviuosly.......you got offended and now your trying to hurt me........whatever....... really your the one who sounds stupid..... by the way...... you should practice what you preach........ I'm pissed off about people who can't pick up a handbook of English usage. I'll recommend one - the Elements of English by Strunk & White..... really you should have written.......i'm pissed off at people who can't pick up an English usage handbook!.................. mean guy! - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 6:17pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 8:02pm
Chris Logan
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You're a guy, right? - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 9:31pm
dumpstermesh
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Hahaha.... I get pissed off when I see people smoking with their infants, or in their car with the windows rolled up (at least the window was rolled down for you Trevor - even if she couldn't muster up the strength to really toss that nasty butt out), but you know what? You can't change other people, so it's better to just know that you are better than them and move on.
As for Chris Logan - what's up yer butt? You sure are getting on her case over some ranting. I took her writing as ranting and it read ok for that. I try to not get my panties in a bunch over the misuse of "your" and "obvious" mispellings because it just makes me look like a big meanie. Which is how you are coming across btw. Maybe you are trying to quit smoking and reading her rant made you crazy with nicotine desire?

Crazy front butt in that pic!! - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:06pm
Sprocket
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do I look like a guy? i think i look like a girl! if you click on my user info you will see my girly picture....... but I fucking punch like a guy......do you own logans pub? too bad all of my friends bands play there........ your a fucking loser........ - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:06pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:17pm
dumpstermesh
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Actually you look like three girls. Buggin.... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:12pm
metalqueen
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Speaking of infants......my boyfriend and I just went and saw the hills have eyes part 2 and this couple walked in with a baby,first of all I thought to myself if that baby starts crying Im gonna loose it and secondly this movie was pretty loud and gory with lots of screaming......why the fuck would you ever bring a baby to a movie like that....HELLO! IDIOTS!!! - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:20pm
Sprocket
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i bet you it was Chris Logan was his wife blowing smoke in the baby's face? - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:22pm
metalqueen
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Hey sprocket....dont let the idiots get to you!!..let it go and leave it at that!!!..luv ya - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:24pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:26pm
Sprocket
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ok...sorry Mr. Logan - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:26pm Edited: Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:29pm
Sprocket
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hey forgotten joe........ you spelled you wrong....... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 10:45pm
trevor corey
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I think Mr L sounds like someone who needs a smoke.........or a lap dance........oh and Dumpster, it's called a gunt not a front butt.....my poor eyes.......I've never seen such a sight.....rock on Sprocket! - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 11:22pm
trevor corey
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Oh man.......remember when everyone used to chain smoke on the ferries.....back in the old days.... - Sun, 25 Mar 2007 11:25pm
dumpstermesh
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Trevor - I've seen gunts, that there is a front butt. Lets not fight in front of the kids though, just say I'm right and be done with it.
My birthday present from my bf last year was him quitting smoking. I told him when we started dating that I would never marry a smoker so he quit. Best present ever if you ask me. And yes I used to smoke so I know how nasty it is. He smoked for 20 something years!! I'm pretty proud of him. - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:38am
trevor corey
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I'm sorry...... I didn't mean to bunch up your panties......I'm proud of him too...................for taming you! - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 1:29am Edited: Mon, 26 Mar 2007 1:51am
Nik Olaz
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Classism. Amazing. - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 1:51am
butterflies in my eyes
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ok, i was not putting smokers into a class...... saying they are low class...or unsulting them...I don't smoke, i have never smoked ,no one in my family smokes ,and i'm the youngest of six kids...... however.... most of my sisters are dating or married to smokers , my self included.......... i only started this thread because of some stupid chick who was smoking while holding her baby..... this is a general chit chat page....... anything goes right???? i don't care if your someone who feels the need to correct everyones speech or spelling.....whatever floats your boat....but when you start throwing insults at me ... you better expect to get them back....DON'T WRITE A CHEQUE THAT YOUR ASS CAN'T CASH..... RIGHT?..........and as far as the parents who smoke around their kids I hope you do get offended...... you know you are wrong.... and hopefully your kids WON'T get athsma or worse...... - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 7:11am Edited: Mon, 26 Mar 2007 7:29am
butterflies in my eyes
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oh yeah... as for the picture up there that Forgotten Joe posted..... I think its actually a vagina? .....ewe.......iv'e seen fat , but not like that....plus i think she is dead! yuck......i just threw up in my mouth a bit..... - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 7:51am
Haden
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I think I just read my period quota for the day. Time to log off. - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 9:20am
dumpstermesh
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Nik, I see no classism here. Just because people want to smoke around their defenceless babies we have to take into account whether they are of a lower socio-economic class first? FUCK THAT! You wanna make babies then you better be prepared to treat and raise them right no matter what tax bracket you fall in - don't assume that the rich arn't as rude and ignorant about their smoking habits! Now that would be classist. - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:31pm
dumpstermesh
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Oh ya Trevor, he has tamed nothing. For I am the wild goat tamer!! - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:34pm
trevor corey
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.....unsulted smokey flavour....hehe....sorry Sprocket....I couldn't resist......Dumpstermessh seems a bit "sensitive" on this subject.....good for you girls.....give em hell! - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 2:44pm
ForgottenJoe
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One more for ya'll!! - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 3:34pm
butterflies in my eyes
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yummy! how the fuck is the green one even standing? - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 5:52pm Edited: Mon, 26 Mar 2007 5:53pm
Lord Darkith
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Why the hell do you have to add ..... at the end of every sentence. Is it supposed to look better, make you look unique? - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 6:35pm
butterflies in my eyes
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because i'm partially blind and its easier for me to to distinguish between sentences, sorry to bother you with it! - Mon, 26 Mar 2007 8:44pm Edited: Mon, 26 Mar 2007 8:45pm
trevor corey
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I like it.......... Makes it easier to read.........hope you don't mind if I use it... - Tue, 27 Mar 2007 1:25am Edited: Tue, 27 Mar 2007 1:25am
butterflies in my eyes
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go..................................................ahead......................................trevor...............................corey! - Tue, 27 Mar 2007 10:10am
Danielle
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One day....when you are old and grey (not that I am mind you) you hopefully will understand that alot of people do things out of ignorance (lack of knowledge) rather than stupidity or malice. I grew up in a time when almost everyone smoked. We never wore seatbelts. Never wore helmets when we rode our bikes, etc. I lived through it, and grew up to be a mean lean party machine. People do stupid things because they may not know any better. Not necessarily because they are stupid or don't care. We can't stop uneducated, I.Q. challenged people from reproducing unfortunately so the only thing left is to educate them in a non-threatending way so they don't get defensive. I would have commented on the "baby burning" incident and even if she told me to fuck off at least maybe next time she might think twice before lighting up above the kid's head. - Tue, 3 Apr 2007 12:57am
Spring-Loaded
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Ive confronted idiot parents before, it never turns out well! I was trying to calm a little girl in a jewelry store after her mom told her she would never see her daddy again if she didn't get her second ear pearced...the little girl kept saying I don't want to do the other ear it hurts too much, and instead of being a good mom , and coming back another day,this lady decides to threaten her liitle 3 year old girl in every way imaginable, with insults in between like your going to be ugly with just one ear pearced....ect ect....then she left her in the store.....to cry alone for a minute.......i think the girl who worked in the store called the police...but I let her know on my way out of the mall what I thaught of her abuse...and she said you try being a parent of a todler....i said i am....and i would never hurt my child that way.....she said ...whatever! great responce......I don't think its lack of education...i think its lack of compassion ...it doesn't take a masters degree to love and protect your kids...... - Tue, 3 Apr 2007 12:16pm
Spring-Loaded
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oh yeah..... I have grey hair....lol....and we didn't wear seatbelts either.... my mom always drove a 1958 Chevy...... but hey.....the world was different back in the 80's..... now that we know smoking is bad.....no excuses for exposing children to bad habbits!....... but I swear sometimes in front of my son.....guess i should smack myself on the hand...but swearing won't cause him cancer or worse! - Tue, 3 Apr 2007 12:23pm
dumpstermesh
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"I grew up in a time"

HAHAHA!! Is this the part where you tell me about the uphill walk in the snow, barefoot, to school?

I think most of us grew up in "that time". My parents used to get me to light their smokes for them and got me smoking by time I was 11. I was also allowed to drink with my alcoholic mother as a youngin' but we don't really need to go there. And helmets? Ya, I never wore one of those until I was in my twenties.
You know what I learned from growing up like that? I will NEVER put my children through that and I don't like the idea of standing by while other parents make foolish mistakes either. We live in an enlightened time now - don't we?

I like how you defined ignorance for us. Boy you must really think we are dumb Danielle. - Tue, 3 Apr 2007 2:23pm
Kimberleykaos
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Yo D Mesh - Miss ya kitten.
I could tell ya all the wonderful, yet long story of my SaltSpringIsl upbringing which led to me eating a lit ciggy as a wee lass in the back seat of ma's VWBUG...she thought she had trown it out the window (nice eh? On Saltspring no less) it landed with curious Kimberley...that's the short version

Rockin Circus Fire Eating Stunts As a kid,,, - Wed, 4 Apr 2007 3:25pm Edited: Wed, 4 Apr 2007 3:26pm
dumpstermesh
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HEY KK!! Where have thou been? Haven't seen you in here for AGES!! Not that your missing much...hehheh.

I haven't seen ya on msn forever either... What's up with that! - Wed, 4 Apr 2007 3:44pm
XY-POLE
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Yeah, what's up with dat Kim Kim ? - Wed, 4 Apr 2007 4:57pm
Spring-Loaded
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too funny...the girl that I started this thread about had a tatty on her face too! - Wed, 4 Apr 2007 5:55pm
Danielle
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I did not define "ignorance" because I thought anyone was dumb, but like many words in the English language, the word ignorance could have various meanings. What I mean to say is that you may have a slightly different definition of it than I do. However, now that I think about it, it probably wasn't such a good word to use in this instance anyway because there are lots of well educated parents out there who are psychologically or physically abusing their children. I know of some sick fucks who were both doctors who abused their son to such a degree he sued them and won. He received a huge settlement but still however ended up on the streets and died from an overdose a few years later. That's how fucked up they made him. And there are lots of educated people out there who are just dumb no matter what. I heard a woman calling her young daughter a "little bitch" once when I was shopping so I went up to her and told her that she was the bitch. She freaked out and started yelling profanities at me but I didn't care, I got my 2 cents worth in and maybe she thought about it later and maybe not but at least having confronted her made me feel a little bit better. So maybe some people don't know any better, maybe they were raised that way and that's the norm for them, but I guess my point (which is diluted now and I'm sure no one could even give a flying fuck) is that if you see an act of "parental neglect/abuse" whatever, it may not just be as simple as the parent being a fucking asshole/bitch. - Tue, 10 Apr 2007 2:23am
Spring-Loaded
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we should start a group.....good parents against bad parents.....make it like a roller derby they can take their aggressions out on adults instead of kids and we can kick their asses!! and we can wear short skirts and roller skates!!!....sounds good to me! - Tue, 10 Apr 2007 7:46am
Danielle
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We can call ourselves PAFUP (people against fucked up parents) or SPAG (stupid parent annihilation group). hahahaha. We capture people and force them to shit themselves and not let them change for hours, make them eat stuff they don't like, make them feel powerless, and if they resist we hit them. We need to start one up also for the fuckin fuckers who abuse their animals too. That turns me into evil incarnate. - Tue, 10 Apr 2007 7:58pm
Pretending to be someone else!
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I like S.P.A.G. woo hoo! bad parents beware!!! we can find bad parents at grocery stores, liquor stores, playgrounds....ect!.......lol....and the animal abusers.....we'll just wait outside the spca for people to abandon thier pets and we'll keep the pets and give them a good home!!! all the while on roller skates!!!! - Wed, 11 Apr 2007 10:11am
Danielle
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If I was wearing roller skates - THAT WOULD BE VERY FUNNY. I can run fast though. Have you ever taken in a pet and then tried to give it away to a good home? I have and it never worked....once I have a cat or dog with me for a day or two.......they ain't goin nowhere. I would end up with herds/packs/flocks. I'd have to move to Sooke....... - Wed, 11 Apr 2007 1:02pm
trevor corey
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My Dad had alot of groupies when I was a kid in the seventies and a big house to party at. I liked to sneak up and scam money, smokes and drink bottoms off of drunk party goers. By the time I was 12 I was closer in age to his girlfriends than he was. He had this one girlfriend who was a Playboy bunny, I came home from school one day for lunch and saw her washing dishes in the nude. That was my first ever naked woman. I was like ten years old and other than making me choosey as an adult I don't feel to bad about the experience. I'd like to think those years added "character".
If it wasn't for my wife, I'd be the crazy dog guy, with a pack of thirty. - Thu, 12 Apr 2007 2:36am Edited: Thu, 12 Apr 2007 3:20am
SPRING - LOADED
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who's your daddy? - Thu, 12 Apr 2007 7:19am
trevor corey
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Ross Bay - Thu, 12 Apr 2007 3:38pm
Spring-Laden-bin-dun-deep
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and another one......Sunday April 22nd 2007, lady who's three year old daughter peed her pants in the Mc Donalds play ground....great parenting...telling your crying little girl who was embarased and wet, that she is discusting, and that she will have to suffer because you just got there and apperently eating McDonalds is more important than your daughters dignity......and then to push your daughter from behind because you finally got fed up with her crying, and decided to take her home so she could change her pants! I can only imagine what that poor sweet little girl had to endure the whole walk home......bitch....i would have said something but, this big mama would have kicked my teeth in ......so I said its ok to the little girl...we all pee our pants!...lol.... - Sun, 22 Apr 2007 1:28pm Edited: Sun, 22 Apr 2007 1:32pm
trevor corey
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........McDonald's eating ....she deserve a beatin....... - Sun, 22 Apr 2007 1:49pm
Spring-Laden-bin-dun-deep
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me?...lol...I was feeding my child there too.....guess i should write a post about myself...i'm such a hypocrite.....but we don't eat there often! - Sun, 22 Apr 2007 2:00pm
Danielle
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That sound like a situation for SPAG (as above: stupid parent annihilation group). Don't feel guilty springy girl, kids love Mcdonalds and if you let them eat that kinda stuff once in a while then they won't go nuts on it when they get older just cuz they weren't allowed to have it before. When mine were at that "always a possibility of having accidents" stage (not so very long ago) I always travelled with a small duffle bag with spare undies/pants whatever just in case. I always wonder if they treat their kids like that in public I shudder at the thought of what goes on behind closed doors. Can't even think about it too much....gotta go hug my kids.... - Sun, 22 Apr 2007 2:15pm
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